Today, a diamond engagement ring has become the symbol of eternal love and commitment.
Not many people question how this came to be - and whether a ring was always the exchange
that locked down a lifelong partnership. Nowadays, a lot of people will consider how they want
to propose, without the question of what exactly they will propose with. This is because in
everyone’s minds, it’s very simple. It would have to be a diamond engagement ring - because
that’s what everybody does, right? So how did this all come to be? Read on to learn about the
history of the first engagement ring, and how it came to be the eternal symbol of love.
It is believed that ring exchanges date back to the ancient Egyptians who believed that circles
were a symbol of eternity. However, rather than having extravagant diamond enamored metal
bands, it was simply a braided reed. These were worn on the left hand ring finger, which was
believe to have a vein that ran directly to the heart, later named the Vena Amoris, or the ‘vein of
love’.
Fast forward to the 2nd Century BC, it was believed that rings were used by the ancient
Romans as a means of ownership. This was thought to begin the tradition of giving the bride
money or a valuable object in return for commitment. It was almost as if solid gold or iron rings
were seen to signify a legally binding agreement rather than just love.
Diamonds weren’t actually seen on engagement rings until much later on. The first documented
use of diamonds on engagement rings didn’t appear until 1477. Archduke Maximilian of Austria
proposed to Mary of Burgundy with a ring set with thin pieces of diamonds in the shape of an
‘M’.
However, everything changed when diamonds were discovered in South Africa in the late 19th
century. British businessmen who were operating the South African mines recognised that by
maintaining the fiction that diamonds were scarce and inherently valuable, it meant that they
would be able to drive up the prices and maintain their investment.
They did so by launching a South African based cartel, De Beers Consolidated Mines ltd., and
spending aggressively on advertising, with the infamous slogan, ‘Diamond are Forever’
eventually being marketed in the 1940s. They entered in multiple markets around the world,
making it the norm to have diamond engagement rings, and convincing people that they should
spend 2 months of salary on an engagement ring.
While the hype of ‘the biggest ring means the biggest love’ has died down significantly, with a lot
of people becoming more sensible with their spend, the symbolism is unlikely to ever die down.
From the simplicity of ‘circles meaning eternity’ to ‘the value of the ring being equal to the value
of your love’ - people belong on varying degrees of this spectrum. Whether you are a believer
that your love is only as big as your ring, or you just believe that a small ring can be just as big
of a token of your love and commitment - you can rest easy knowing that it started out as a
humble circle, a symbolism of eternity.
If you’re looking for your own token of eternal love for someone special in your life - browse the
GoldeNet website today. If you have any questions - don’t hesitate to contact us at 1300 361
873.